But what do you call it?

(man-on-man sexual encounters. described in street language, so totally not for kids or the sexually modest)

Gay porn videos bring us depictions of a variety of sexual acts that few of us have actually encountered; one service of the performers in the business is to bring us moving experiences from the fantasy land of mansex, taking us places we’re unlikely to go in real life, places we might not have known existed, where men do things that we don’t even know how to talk about. Hot action — but what do you call it?

And so from MEN. com’s 2026 collection Malik Delgaty: The Ultimate Ride, scene 2, “(The) Bootyguard” (from 2022), in which (according to the Internet Adult Film Database):

Malik [Delgaty] neglects his [bodyguard] duties to pick … bottom [Joey Mills] up for an upside-down bj, then fingers his hole and fucks him doggystyle.

Fucking doggystyle we all know about (whether it’s something we engage in or not), but what’s an upside down bj?

Not, it turns out, something we should be trying out at home, unless we’re acrobatically trained. As in standard blow jobs, there’s an insertive partner C (who supplies the cock) and a receptive partner M (who supplies the mouth). But instead of kneeling in front of a standing C, or bending over a sitting C, or lying next to a C resting on his side — all common ways of approaching a dick to blow it — M is suspended upside down, with the front of his body pressed against the front of the body of a standing C, M’s body held in this position by his legs wrapped around C’s neck, putting M’s mouth in position to suck C’s cock. M will stabilize his body, either by balancing on his hands (in the handstand variant) or by wrapping his hand’s around C’s waist (in the waisthug variant).

Joey Mills performs the waisthug variant of an upside down bj in “Bootyguard”, enthusiastically, but the photos I’ve been able to find are dominated by Delgaty’s huge cock (which is the star of the whole DVD), which I’d have to fuzz out for WordPress modesty. But be not disappointed, for there are photos from other porn flicks showing this variant nicely.

From Flava Works’s Mixxxed Nuts (2009), with Mr, Saukei (standing) holding Tony Michaels (upside down), hands around his partner’s waist, blowing him:


(#1) The waisthug variant of an upside down bj (with the insertive partner merely providing the cock, receptive partner sucking it)

And then from MEN.com’s  Drill My Hole (2014), with Jarec Wentworth (standing) rimming his partner and Garrett Cooper (upside down), balancing on his hands, blowing his:


(#2) The handstand variant of an upside down bj with mutual service: insertive partner rimming, receptive partner sucking cock (so: a version of standing 69)

Terminological note. Another kind of upside down bj, from the Falcon DVD Tales from the Locker Room 2 (2021):


(#3)  Cade Maddox face-fucking Masyn Thorne — from the back (instead of the front)

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